50 Irresistible First Date Ideas That'll Immediately Break the Ice

Experts say these are the most creative ways to start your relationship off right.

Everyone knows the first date is the hardest one to plan. Should you opt for something simple—such as coffee or a drink—or are you the type of person who wants to be remembered for suggesting something more unique? One thing is for sure: When it comes to first date ideas, you want to stick to activities that ensure you both have a good time—and hopefully, you'll soon be planning a second date, as well. Read on for 50 potential first dates that will help you find your chemistry.

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50 Unique Ideas for a First Date

Here, we've compiled all of the greatest, least boring, and expertly vetted first date activities that are guaranteed to not only impress your date but also potentially lay the groundwork for a lasting relationship. In other words, they're sure to extend a lot further than your typical dinner date. Who knows? Any one of these could be the start of something new and life-changing.

1. Take a walk.

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Yes, sometimes the simplest date ideas are the best ones. According to research by the dating app Zoosk, after dinner and coffee, a walk is the third most popular date idea for women in their 30s, 50s, and 60s. It ranked fourth among women in their 20s. Taking a stroll is a simple, organic, and inexpensive way to get that first date conversation flowing.

2. Visit an art gallery.

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"Visiting one or several museums can be a great first date," says Michelle Ngome, a speaker, author, and connection enthusiast. "Many are free, affordable, or accept donations. This gives the couple a chance to have casual small talk and understand each other's perspective on life based on art."

An art museum also offers the perfect setting to kill any awkward silences: There will be an endless supply of great conversation starters all around you. Plus, many museums have small cafes, so if things are going well, you can extend the date by grabbing a bite.

3. Swap hobbies.

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Don't make your date wait to get to know the real you. Splitting the day between your favorite activities is a great way to get more familiar with each other. Each of you picks one of your favorite ways to pass the time and shares it with the other. After a meal break, the next person gets their turn.

4. Embark on a ghost tour.

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Did you know that haunted spots are becoming increasingly popular tourist destinations? Changes are, you won't have to travel far to find one, either. There are many supernatural hot spots all across the United States, and more people are into spooky stuff than you may expect. Plus fear gets our heart pumping in just the right way to make a first date even more exciting than it already is.

5. Visit a farmers market.

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There are a ton of reasons this works so well as a first date. "First, it's a public place so it's relatively safe," says Sunny Rodgers, a clinical sexologist and certified sex coach. "Plus, it gives socially nervous daters a lot of different things to discuss. You can discuss flowers, fruit, and jam preferences as you wander and shop together. If the date is going well, I suggest buying coffee, fruit, or ice cream and sitting someplace to eat or drink together. If things are going extremely well, I suggest purchasing a few key ingredients and setting a second date where you'll cook or prepare the purchased ingredients to enjoy together."

And if the date isn't going well? You've got the perfect excuse to head out: fresh ingredients that need to be put away.

6. Try trivia night (and win)!

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This beats the typical conversation over cocktails. Many bars and pubs have themed trivia nights, so you can show off your pop culture or historical knowledge and get into the playful competitive spirit together. See if you can find a location with other activities so there's something to do after the game comes to an end. No harm in capping the night with a quick open mic night, a game of darts, or a game of pool.

7. Check out a carnival or amusement park.

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It doesn't matter how old you are, an amusement park (or pop-up carnival) is a guaranteed good time. Having rides, games, and food stalls at your disposal will help break the ice and fill in any conversation gaps.

8. Escape an escape room.

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These adventure games in which people work together to use clues to solve various puzzles are incredibly popular right now, and they make a fantastic first date activity. "An escape room is a surefire way to get to know your date quickly," says Laura Bilotta, a dating coach, and matchmaker. "You'll have to use teamwork, and the task at hand will keep the two of you talking without awkward lulls."

9. Go hiking.

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If you both like being active outdoors, this is a great way to get to know each other. "I don't suggest hitting a secluded trek or one that would take hours to complete, but instead find a walking trail either around your city, in a park, or out in the countryside," suggests J. Hope Suis, a relationship expert, and author. "Pack some water and a few snacks, dress comfortably, and hit the road. You will have plenty of time for conversation and you can also judge their spontaneity and maybe even their fitness skills."

10. Attend a reading.

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If you find intelligence sexy, a literature or poetry reading will help you gauge your date's intellect and provide a conversation starter. "It will allow you to talk about a subject matter that is outside of 'tell me about yourself,' and yet you still get a sense of the other person," says Janet Zinn, LCSW, a couples counselor.

You don't have to travel far for these types of events, either. Readings may take place anywhere from the local bookstore to the neighborhood coffee shop.

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11. Get a spa treatment.

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It's way too early for a couples rubdown, but a side-by-side manicure or chair massage, you can do. Being pampered will ease any nerves that you or your date have about meeting each other, making for a much more relaxed conversation. You'll also both get the satisfaction of doing something nice for yourself, even if there aren't any sparks.

12. Go skating.

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"Ice skating or roller skating was a dating staple back in high school for many," notes Stef Safran, a dating and matchmaking expert. "Try out doing an activity that keeps the focus on balancing yourself from falling—literally." At the end of the day, facing some light physical danger is a time-honored bonding experience.

13. Sing karaoke.

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"Nothing draws us close to someone like a willingness to share with openness and honesty," says Michelle Puster, a licensed professional counselor. "A demonstration of such vulnerability shows confidence and an effort to get to know someone by sharing about themselves first."

14. Check out some open houses.

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Pick a weekend day to check out open houses in a nice neighborhood near you. Lots of them have free snacks and drinks, plus you'll be able to see what your date is hoping for out of their future without having to ask straight out. If nothing else, it makes for a fun bonding experience.

15. Go to a bowling alley.

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Bowling can feel a little goofy (the shoes, the music, the technique), which means it's perfect for breaking the ice.

16. Take an art or pottery class.

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"This activity can spark your creativity and will also allow for conversation and connection," notes Susan Ruth Freedman, a couples therapist and a clinical sexologist. If all goes well, you'll be happy to have that art class painting as a reminder of how you two first met.

17. See a comedy show.

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"A great way to ditch the tired dinner and drinks combo is to grab a cocktail and go to a comedy show," Bilotta says. "Having a drink first will help you get comfortable and acquainted. Hopefully, the show you see is funny, but even if it isn't, you'll have lots to talk about afterward."

18. Visit an animal shelter.

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"If you're an animal lover, one of the best first dates is to go to an animal shelter where they have a selection of animals from cute kittens to Komodo dragons," says Cherry Davis, a dating coach. You'll learn something from how your date interacts with them, since you can often gauge how affectionate someone is by how they treat animals.

19. Attend a sporting event.

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Love sports and know your date does too? Check out a baseball game or another kind of sporting event. "Both people can get to know each other and how they react at events like this," explains relationship coach Susan Golicic, PhD. "It also has lots of things going on in case some awkward silences pop up at the beginning." Don't do this if your date isn't into sports, however—they won't enjoy you explaining every play to them.

Oh, and be sure to swing by the snack bar before the game begins!

20. Listen to jazz.

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If your city has a great jazz club (and chances are, it does), take your date to enjoy some live music while you have a cocktail or three. The setting will be more romantic than your typical bar, and you'll have plenty of material to chat about in between sets. (After all, it's the perfect opportunity to channel your own Emma Stone and Ryan Gosling.) Of course, you should probably check in about their music taste before booking the show to make sure they'll enjoy it.

21. Take a cooking class.

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"I usually suggest cooking classes because it's hands-on," Rodgers says. "Again, it's a safe place and offers a shared experience that allows for lots of topics to discuss. It's also usually a short time period, so the dater can decide if they wish to extend the date or make plans for a second date. With something like a pasta-making class, you could suggest a second date at an Italian restaurant known for their fresh pasta."

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22. See a psychic.

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What better way is there to find out if you're destined to be together forever?

23. Check out a street or music festival.

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You'd be surprised how many of these events there are, and they make great day date destinations. "It's pretty easy to find a festival within 10 or 20 miles if you look hard enough," says David Bennett, a certified counselor and relationship expert. "They often involve free shows, good food, games, and rides. And, at the very least, you can people-watch."

24. See a drive-in movie.

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Seeing a movie isn't generally ideal for a first date, since it's pretty difficult to have a conversation in a crowded theater. A drive-in, on the other hand, allows for a little more privacy so you can chat about your favorite scenes without bothering anyone else.

25. Hit up a botanical garden.

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"If the weather allows, checking out a botanic garden can be a nice way to view things when you have to focus on what's in front of you," Safran says. That way, you don't have to stress about coming up with topics when there's a break in the conversation.

26. Take a wine-tasting course.

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Many wine shops and bars offer wine-tasting evenings, sometimes even for free. If you can't find a class near you, DIY one at a BYOB restaurant with a few different bottles of wine.

27. Anything at the beach

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If you have access to a beach, why not utilize it? In Zoosk's research on date ideas, women of all age groups mentioned the beach as one of their top romantic venues.

28. Create your own culinary tour.

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If you feel like getting creative with your dinner, give this first date idea a go. "Order one appetizer at a local place, then go to another place and share another appetizer," suggests Zinn. Keep going until you're full! "You'll learn your date's food tastes, and it's a fun way to try different things together." And if you don't want to do all that running around, you can always go the more traditional route and treat your date to a home-cooked meal.

29. Meet up at sunrise or sunset.

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"Meet to watch the sunrise or sunset," Golicic recommends. "This is not only romantic but also allows for conversation—sometimes really deep conversation—while taking in the beauty of something we often take for granted."

30. Visit the zoo.

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Similar to the botanic garden idea, this outing shifts the focus onto something other than the two of you, Safran says, which can help cut out the first date awkwardness that sometimes occurs.

31. Go dessert hunting.

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Take it upon yourselves to discover the best dessert spot in town. "Going from place to place on a tour can have you sampling deserts while making small talk," Safran says. You could also book a cupcake tour or something similar if it's offered in your area.

"While being one-on-one can make some people nervous, going with a small group can make things easier if it takes you a bit to come out of your shell," Safran adds.

32. Do a park picnic.

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If the weather is nice, have an outdoor picnic in your local park. Pick up some fruit, cheese, crackers, and wine and you'll be set. Dinner in a fancy restaurant is nice as a first date idea, but spending some time together in the fresh air is way more romantic.

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33. Go on a bike ride.

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Or do pretty much any other physical activity you both enjoy. "Not only do you get to do something you would normally do and get to talk about how you work out, you get to check the other person out in workout clothes," Golicic says.

34. Bounce around in a trampoline park.

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It's pretty hard to not have fun when jumping around in a room filled with trampolines. Besides, it's a great way to shake off those first date jitters. "These indoor parks are popping up everywhere," Bennett says. "They add a little thrill and fun to your first date." What's more, you'll see if your date can have a good time and not take themselves too seriously.

35. Meet at a bookstore.

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Take each other on a tour of the bookstore, pointing out your favorite books and why they're important to you. Many bookstores have coffee shops, so you can always start or end the visit with a cup of joe. If it's your first time meeting, then you'll appreciate how well the environment prompts conversation. You can get all those first-date questions out of the way and start planning for the next.

36. Try a swing dance class.

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"This is a playful way to engage, get exercise, and learn how you move together as a couple," Freedman says. Even if it turns out one of you has two left feet, learning a new skill together is a surefire way to gauge your compatibility.

37. Go to a concert.

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"Similar to the sports event, there are times when talking isn't required," Golicic points out. "I would suggest something on the more mellow side to start with, but this is a chance to have fun moving and singing to the music." Leave all the awkward conversation behind and simply enjoy the show.

38. Visit a neighborhood you've never been to.

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If you live in a major city, it's likely that there are neighborhoods in your area that you've never explored. Maybe there's even a major tourist attraction in your town that you've never been to. Meet your date there and explore.

39. Play arcade games.

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"Bars are popping up that are filled with old-school arcade games and Skee-Ball," Bennett says. You can often play for free if you buy a drink or two, and some friendly competition is a solid way to see if there's a spark.

40. Volunteer.

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Do some good together. "Volunteer dates for an organization are a great way to see if you share the same values and morals," Davis says. "You can observe how they interact with other volunteers, if they are adaptable or need structure, and if they are willing to try something new interacting with people that wouldn't be in their social circle."

41. Eat at a diner.

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This takes all the stuffiness and pretension out of the typical restaurant date. It's hard to take yourself too seriously when you're eating pancakes for dinner.

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42. Go on a photography walking tour.

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This first date idea can easily be DIY-ed. "Take your smartphone and go for a walk and talk while taking pictures of what you like," Zinn says. "Then, sit and compare what you took and why you liked it."

43. Eat brunch.

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Daytime dates are seriously underrated, and brunch is a great way to start. Pick a restaurant you know has amazing food and a lively atmosphere that will inspire conversation.

44. Go kayaking.

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"For the outdoor enthusiast, this is a great activity for a beautiful day," Freedman says. "Ideally, rent a two-person kayak so you can be close and communicate about the beautiful sites in nature."

45. Eat ice cream.

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It's safe to say you and your potential S.O. have been on a million coffee dates, but have you ever been on an ice cream date? Probably not. Grab a cone and take a stroll.

46. Go thrift shopping.

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Hit up the flea market and search for some hidden treasures together. That way, you get a sense of your date's style and sense of humor. And no matter how the date goes, you could end up going home with some cool stuff.

47. Do a group yoga class.

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Not only is yoga good for the head and the heart, it's also a great way to get the body moving. The more you do, the more blood you get pumping, which we all know is good for a great variety of things.

Start with a group class for the first date. If all goes well, you can upgrade to something a little more private for your second date.

48. Go rock climbing.

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If you're the athletic type and want to test your skills in a new way, then think about heading to an indoor rock climbing wall. So long as your date is comfortable with this kind of activity, you can demonstrate your more adventurous side to them.

49. Play laser tag.

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Escape rooms can be intense, and there might be too many kids hanging out at the local arcade. Why not challenge your date to a game of laser tag? It's also a fun, engaging option that doesn't put too much pressure on the get-to-know-you process.

50. Set up a game night.

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Playing a sport isn't everyone's idea of a good time. If you're trying to get to know someone who is more of a homebody, then think about setting up a game night. You might be surprised at just how much fun you can have playing board games with a new friend. Plus, you can lean into the luxury of being at home. Sit back, relax, and enjoy a few glasses of your favorite wine to make the competition even more entertaining.

Wrapping Up

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