The 50 Best Birthday Gifts For Your Wife

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Over the course of your marriage, you'll send hundreds of bouquets of flowers, pay for thousands of movie tickets, and give what feels like an endless number of gift cards to your wife. However, when you're looking to show your spouse just how truly special she is to you, the same old presents just won't cut it. Whether you've been married for five years or 50, these stylish, personal, and useful gifts will make it clear just how important she is to you, making you feel like newlyweds again in no time. And for some self-shopping, check out these 50 Gifts So Great You'll Want to Buy Them for Yourself.

Tiffany Signature Pearl Earrings

Tiffany pearl and diamond earrings

$1,400; buy now from Tiffany.

No matter your wife's style, these classic, understated diamond and pearl earrings are sure to complement it. And if you're not married yet—but hope to be soon!—don't our great guide to the 20 Best Engagement Rings for Every Budget. 

Microsoft Surface Pro 6

microsoft surface pro 6

From $799; buy now from Microsoft.

Don't call it a tablet—and don't call it a laptop, either. Microsoft's latest high-powered hybrid has all the benefits of both, all wrapped up in a seriously stylish package. Bonus: it's light as a feather (less than two pounds!) and has a jaw-dropping battery life (nearly 14 hours!), for maximum on-the-go potential.

Personalized Luggage

Cuyana bag

$375; buy now from Cuyana.

In addition to being a stylish, personal present this bag packs an even better gift: the ability to bypass the long lines at baggage claim. And if you're traveling somewhere soon, know the 30 Airport Secrets Only Insiders Know. 

An Audible Subscription

telling others not to disturb you can increase productivity

From $14.95/month; buy now from Audible.

If your wife is a bibliophile but short on time, an Audible subscription will help turn her commute or workout into an enriching experience. And consider starting her off with one of the 40 Books Every Woman Over 40 Should Have on Her Bookshelf.

A Monogrammed Cashmere Throw

Monogrammed cashmere throw

$249; buy now from Williams Sonoma.

Head her off at the pass before she steals another pair of your socks or fleece PJ bottoms with this stylish monogrammed cashmere throw.

A Designer Fitbit Brand

Fitbit Alta Band

$198; buy now from Tory Burch.

Help her keep those New Year's resolutions without sacrificing style with this luxe bracelet-style Fitbit Alta band. And when you're in the market for a gift for yourself, check out the 40 Items Ever Man Over 40 Should Have in His Home.

A Weighted Blanket

Gravity Blanket

$249; buy now from Gravity Blankets.

There's no better gift than a good night's rest. Luckily, this weighted blanket will have her sleeping like a baby in no time. And some great advice on what not to buy, here are the 30 Most Useless Home Appliances Ever Created. 

A Mont Blanc Pen

Mont Blanc Meisterstuck

$440; buy now from Mont Blanc.

No matter what your size or style, a timeless pen is one accessory that's sure to always fit. The Meisterstück Platinum-Coated Classique Ballpoint Pen from Mont Blanc is a standout, whether you're using it to pen thank you notes or sign checks.

And a Personalized Notebook to Go With It

Monogrammed Notebook

$29; buy now from LeWooDesign on Etsy.

Retire that beat-up Moleskine once and for all. This leather-covered journal from LeWooDesign on Etsy is both refillable and monogrammable, as well as perfectly purse-sized.

A Pair of Great Running Shoes

Nike running shoes

$90; buy now from Nike.

A journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step. And a comfortable step starts with a great running shoe. The Nike Air Zoom Winflo 4 is equal parts stylish and supportive, perfect for both marathon training and casual walks to brunch.

A Pair of Chic Headphones


Frends Taylor headphones

$199.99; buy now from Frends.

Everyone and their mother has a pair of Beats, but your wife deserves something a bit more stylish and grown-up. Fortunately, these rose gold headphones from Frends are the perfect mix of form and function.

A Wine of the Month Club Subscription

pouring red wine

Starting at $24; buy now from Wine of the Month Club.

Give your wife the gift of great wine with a subscription to a wine of the month club. Perfect for minimalists, this is one gift you won't be upset about her tossing when she's done with it. And for the person who has it all, check out the 100 Wow Gifts for The Person Who Has Everything!

A Stylish Passport Holder

Liberty London Passport Case

$91.35; buy now from Liberty London.

The next best thing to a luxury vacation? Luxury vacation accessories. This bold Liberty London passport holder will be just as classic 10 years from now as it is today.

And a Unique Getaway


Price upon request; book now at ICEHOTEL.

Take her on a trip that's as unique as she is by booking a room at an exciting hotel, like the ICEHOTEL in Jukkasjärvi, Sweden, where you can sleep in a chic ice cave.

A Le Creuset Heart Cocotte

Le Creuset ceramic pot

From $150; buy now from Le Creuset.

Show her you love her and all her culinary creations with this versatile Le Creuset Heart Cocotte. This pot can be used on the stovetop or in the oven, making it the perfect multipurpose tool for aspiring chefs. And once you're set up, you two can start cooking the 40 Dishes Everyone Over 40 Should Master. 

An Hermès Kelly Bag

Hermes Kelly purse

Price upon request; buy now from Hermès.

Your wife is a fashion icon in your eyes, and she deserves the accessories to match. Fortunately, an Hermès Kelly bag never goes out of style.

An EcoSphere

EcoSphere biosphere

Starting at $63.99; buy now from EcoSphere.

Cubicles rarely have much charm, but a few cool desk accessories can change that in an instant. Liven up your wife's workspace with an EcoSphere, a self-contained ecosystem full of marine life and plants that's a perfectly low-maintenance pet. And when you're buying for the label-lover in your life, check out these 75 Best Luxury Gifts.

A Pair of Stylish Snow Boots

Sorel snow boots

$180; buy now from Sorel.

With winter's deep freeze showing no signs of letting up, a pair of good snow boots is essential. Luckily, these Sorel boots are as cute as they are practical.

A Silk Pillowcase

Silk pillow case

From $79; buy now from Nordstrom.

Give your wife the gift of a better beauty sleep with one of the elegant silk pillowcases from Slip. Not only can this pillowcase reportedly keep hair from frizzing and prevent wrinkles, it's also chic addition to any existing bed setup.

Gucci Princetown Mules

Gucci fur mules

From $995; buy now from Gucci.

Fashionable footwear is a welcome addition to any wardrobe. Luckily, these fur-lined Gucci Princetown mules go as well with a pair of ripped jeans as they do with a little black dress. Looking for a gift you can't get in a store? Book a trip to one of the 5 Best Exotic Getaways for 2018!

A Chic Bike

Bike Best Birthday Gifts For Your Wife

$620; buy now at Electra

There's nothing better than cruising around town on a fresh set of wheels—especially ones with this much style. If this one isn't quite right for your wife's style, check the other options listed in here: 17 Insanely Cool New Luxury Bicycles for Spring.

A Stitch Fix Gift Card

 Stitch Fix gift card Best Birthday Gifts For Your Wife

From $20; buy now at Stitch Fix

Buying clothes for your wife may be tricky. That's why a gift card to this service, which uses stylists to hand-select several items per month just for her, is a great idea. Anything she doesn't want goes back in the box with zero guilt about picking the wrong thing.

A Baking Class

Baking Class Best Birthday Gifts For Your Wife

From $95 per person; buy now at Momofuku Milk Bar

Bond over all the fun of baking without the prep work or cleanup. Plus, you'll get to take home whatever you make. In the case of Momofuku Milk Bar's "bake the book" classes, that means an epic birthday cake.

A Case of Her Favorite Wine

wine Best Birthday Gifts For Your Wife

From $50; buy now at The Wine Buyer

If she's a wine lover, this is one of the most practical yet sweet gifts you can get her. Check out your local wine shop or head to a speciality site to score a full case of something she loves. If she's a wine consider trying out these 7 Creative Uses for Wine You Never Knew About.

Silk Sleep Accessories

Sleeping Set Best Birthday Gifts For Your Wife

$109; buy now at Nordstrom

Help her add a dash of luxury to her bedtime routine. This set comes with a silk pillowcase, which is said to be the best material for keeping skin healthy, and a silk sleep mask, which is ideal for travel, daytime naps, or sleeping in.

A Vitamix Ascent Blender


From $469.95; buy now from Vitamix.

Give her the tools necessary to make perfect smoothies, soups, and margaritas every time with this lust-worthy blender.

A Time-Saving Blow Dryer

Dyson Hair dryer Best Birthday Gifts For Your Wife

$399; buy now at Sephora

If she blow dries her hair, a super fast blow dryer can be a game-changer. She'll think of you every time she's out the door in no time flat.

Diamond Studs

Tiffany Diamond stud earrings

From $1,200; buy now at Tiffany & Co

If you're looking to spend the big bucks, you can't go wrong with these Tiffany Solitaire Diamond Earrings. Whether you go for a carat weight that's dainty and understated or big and bold, these are so universal that they're virtually guaranteed to be her style.

A Zen Garden

Zen Garden Best Birthday Gifts For Your Wife

$46; buy now at Goop

Everyone needs a quirky desk accessory, and this one comes along with hours of chilled-out entertainment.

A Luxe Candy Trunk

Candy Trunk Best Birthday Gifts For Your Wife

$195; buy now at Sugarfina

Enough premium candy to last her until her next birthday? Say no more.

A Super Soft Throw Blanket

Throw Blanket Best Birthday Gifts For Your Wife

$375; buy now at Tabula Rasa

Whether she has a serious Netflix habit or prefers to curl up with a good book, a cozy, chic blanket is a great way to encourage her to prioritize relaxation in the year to come. If she has a winter birthday, besides using this new blanket, here are 12 Genius Ways to Stay Warm This Winter.

A Getaway on a Private Jet

Private Jet Best Birthday Gifts For Your Wif

From $10,000; buy now at PrivateFly

Nothing's fancier than flying private. Whisk her away for a special trip or meal in the ultimate high style. Confused on how to get a hold of a private jet, we've got your back, learn about  How to Uber a Private Plane.

A New Cell Phone

Samsung SmartPhone Best Birthday Gifts For Your Wife

$725; buy now at Samsung

If your spouse has been complaining about her outdated, hard-to-use phone with a hopelessly cracked screen, now's the time to gift her a new one. The Samsung Galaxy S8 is a universal choice for the techy-savvy and not-so-technically-inclined alike.

A Personalized Jewelry Case

jewelry case Best Birthday Gifts For Your Wife

From $115; Buy now at Cuyana

Bonus points for sticking a new piece of jewelry inside.

Eternity Roses

Roses Best Birthday Gifts For Your Wife

$499; buy now at Venus et Fleur

Roses are a lovely gift, but you can really take things to the next level with these, which go through a special treatment process so that they last for an entire year.

A Photoshoot

Photoshoot Best Birthday Gifts For Your Wife

From $50 per hour; buy now on Thumbtack

Whether she needs new headshots for work, wants to finally do that family photo session you've been meaning to do forever, or would feel empowered by a sexy boudoir situation, hiring and scheduling the photographer for her is thoughtful and ensures it will actually happen. If she prefers to be the photographer, you might to buy her one of these 10 Next-Level Cameras Way Better Than Your Smartphone.

A Fancy Bathrobe

Fancy bathrobe Best Birthday Gifts For Your Wife

$900; buy now at Net-a-Porter

A plain old bathrobe probably wouldn't be an amazing gift, but a truly lush one made from premium materials is a whole different ball game.

A Massage

Massage Best Birthday Gifts For Your Wife

From $75; buy now at Thumbtack

There's no better way to de-stress than a skilled body rubdown. Even better, book it so the masseuse comes to her at work or home so she doesn't have to lift a finger to have a relaxing experience. If you would rather give her a massage, check out The 4 Secrets for Giving Her a Mind-blowing Massage.

A High-End Coffee Machine

Fancy Coffee Machine Best Birthday Gifts For Your Wife

$595; buy now at Amazon

Calling all coffee lovers: This is a gift that will benefit you both. Sure, it's an investment, but it's one she (and you) are likely to use every day. To learn more about how you can both benefit, let her know these 75 Amazing Benefits of Coffee.

An Hermés Scarf

Hermes Scarf Best Birthday Gifts For Your Wife

$395; buy now at Hermés

A true classic, you really can't miss with an Hermés scarf. They come in so many different colors and patterns you're sure to find something that suits her, and it'll never go out of fashion.

A Beautiful Incense Burner

Incense Best Birthday Gifts For Your Wife

$95; buy now at ABC Home

If you know she loves scented candles, give her an upgrade with an incense burner from elegant Parisian ceramics maker Astier de Villatte.

A Fresh Flowers Subscription

Flowers Best Birthday Gifts For Your Wife

From $40 per month; buy now at The Bouqs

There are all kinds of giftable subscriptions out there these days, but flowers are probably the most romantic choice. Added bonus: You can check buying flowers off your list for an entire year. If you need a bit of help when it comes to choosing flower, feel free to consult with The Romantic Man's Guide to Buying the Perfect Flowers.

Self-Care Products

Self-care kit Best Birthday Gifts For Your Wife

$47; buy now at Bando

Sometimes simple pleasures are the best kind. Give her everything she needs for a night in to relax and recharge.

A Smart Suitcase

Smart Suitcase Best Birthday Gifts For Your Wife

$295; buy now at Raden

Any travel lover will be pleased with Raden's A22 Carry model, which fits in the overhead compartments of all planes, has a built-in phone charger, and communicates with an app that allows you to track the real time location of your suitcase.

A Set of Beautiful Notebooks

Notebooks Best Birthday Gifts For Your Wife

$15; buy now at Rifle Paper Co.

Help her fulfill that New Year's resolution to journal more often with some writing materials she'll be excited to use. To help make sure you both accomplish your resolutions, makes notes of the 25 Biggest New Year's Resolution Mistakes.

A Romantic Italian Getaway

Trip to Italy Best Birthday Gifts For Your Wife

From $5,460 per person; buy now at Black Tomato

Nothing says "I love you" like a 10-night jaunt through Tuscany and the Amalfi Coast. Bring on the wine, pasta, and romance. If not Italy, might we suggest booking one of these 9 Life-Changing Luxury Adventures You'll Never Forget.

Custom Shoes

Shoes Best Birthday Gifts For Your Wife

From $149; buy now at Shoes of Prey

If your wife loves beautiful shoes but not how they make her feet feel, consider getting a pair custom-made for her. Shoes of Prey lets you choose the heel height, heel thickness, color, and more of any shoe you buy from them, so you can create a pair you know will be comfortable. She—and her feet—will thank you.

A Gadget for Better Sleep

Sleep helping Best Birthday Gifts For Your Wife

$149; buy now at Amazon

Everyone's trying to get better sleep these days. Sense Sleep helps you fall asleep to a calming soundtrack, measures the quality of your slumber, and wakes you up in a soothing way—just what she needs to finally get a decent night of shuteye.

A Cheeky Cashmere Sweater

Cashmere Sweater Best Birthday Gifts For Your Wife

$375; buy now at Fivestory

Everyone from Reese Witherspoon to Kristen Bell has worn one of Lingua Franca's cashmere sweaters with a message. Not only are they cute, but the brand is committed to giving to various charities through the sales of their products, so they're definitely a gift you can feel good about.

A Babysitter

babysitter Best Birthday Gifts For Your Wife

From $10/hour; buy now at Sittercity

Perhaps the best gift you can give her if you have kids, a babysitter means you can have a true date night with zero stress. Feel free to combine with anything else on this list for best results.

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