We all fantasize about people we're crushing on, but building up an image of someone without really getting to know them can cause serious problems down the line. That's why we've put together an extensive list of questions to ask your crush. We've also segmented them into categories so that you can be more discriminating about what kinds of questions you ask and when. At best, these prompts will help uncover even more amazing truths about a potential partner. At worst, they'll help you determine just how compatible the two of you really are—before those fantasies develop into real feelings.
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Tips for Approaching Your Crush With Questions
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Make sure you remain an active listener.
If you're going to ask the hard-hitting questions, the least you can do is pay attention when someone starts serving up answers. Doing so demonstrates a genuine interest in what your crush has to say. It also helps you gather more material for follow-up questions, and studies have shown that people like people who continue with questions more than those who don't. So, let them talk and listen carefully.
Only ask questions you want to know the answers to.
As the old adage goes, "Don't ask questions if you don't want to know the answer." If the two of you actually end up together, you'll surely end up learning a lot about them. But for now, there's no harm in keeping it light. Spare yourself some drama, and only ask about subjects you're comfortable hearing about—at least for now.
Allow them to ask you questions back.
Don't turn the exchange into an interrogation. Allowing your crush to ask you questions in return will probably make them feel more comfortable. And that will likely result in them feeling close enough to you to reveal more than they otherwise would.
Wrapping Up
That's it for our list of questions to ask your crush but be sure to check back with us soon for even more tips on life, love, and relationships.
