The hectic pace of life is centrifugal, urging a man and a woman away from each other into separate orbits of less important obligations. But in couples that remain durably warm, Tristan and Isolde always find their way back to each other, if only for a refresher moment every now and then. Make a habit of breaking out of the routine interactions of coming and going by every so often focusing powerfully on her and telling her you love her. Hold her strongly by the arms and command the rest of the world to recede.
There's a bubble around the two of you, and all that matters in this instant is your fierce love for her. Don't just say it; add a whisper of growl. You love her like a wolf. Yeah, yeah, sure, your love is deepened by her character and kindness and wit, but its origin had nothing to do with her traits. And yeah, yeah, sure, she's a good mother, a great cook, a loyal friend, but guess what? Passion doesn't need a reason. It just is—like the wind in west Texas. Don't actually say any of this stuff about wolves or west Texas; you'll frighten her. But if your attitude asserts the wildness of your taste for her, she'll feel safe.
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